我让我老公感觉“没面子”,我做得过分吗?(我33岁,女;老公31岁,男)
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Okay, so a while back I posted about my husband, Derek, acting weird. I'm on maternity leave and he suddenly wanted me to quit my job, even though I make more money. Then he got all upset, said he felt emasculated, and ran off to his parents' house.
Turns out, he'd been watching some of those "manosphere" videos online. His dad called me to give me a heads-up and chewed Derek out for it. Derek came home, apologized, but it didn't feel genuine.
We talked about it, and I realized I might have been dismissing his feelings. We've decided to go to therapy, both individually and as a couple. He promised no more tantrums, and I'm going back to work after my leave.
I'm cautiously optimistic, but still a bit wary. Things haven't exactly gone back to normal. I've been asked if he's still watching those videos. I don't know. Also, up until recently, he was great. So, it's hard to know what to think.
Some people have suggested that he might be cheating. I don't really think so, but who knows?
Finally, a lot of you seem to think staying at home is best for kids. Honestly, both of our jobs allow us to work from home a lot. Plus, we can afford a nanny or good daycare. My job will require me to be in the office more, but he was also against his promotion that would keep him away from the kids.