Based on your detailed account, it does appear that you are facing a difficult and potentially hostile work environment. Some key points: - You are being regularly talked over, ignored, and excluded by your manager and team members, which suggests a lack of respect and inclusion. - Your manager has been dismissive of your concerns, and has not provided the guidance and support you've requested to learn the company culture. - There are indications that your age, gender, and race may be factors in how you are being treated. - You have documented the problematic interactions and your emotional state after meetings, which supports your case. While the legal definition of a "hostile work environment" has specific criteria, the pattern of behavior you've described does seem to meet the general standard of a hostile and discriminatory work environment. My advice would be to continue documenting everything carefully, and then consider speaking to HR or an employment lawyer to get their assessment and guidance on next steps. You should not have to endure this level of mistreatment and lack of support in the workplace. Seeking external help may be necessary to address the situation. I hope you're able to find a resolution that improves your work environment and provides the respect and opportunities you deserve. Please don't hesitate to advocate for yourself - your concerns are valid and you have the right to a fair and inclusive workplace.

这位员工多年来表现不佳,我终于能够像需要的那样密切管理她。人力资源部门同意,下一步应该实施绩效改善计划,因为很明显这位员工无法达到预期要求。 她情绪不稳定,戏剧化,长期以来很难对她进行密切管理,因为她对任何批评都反应强烈,所以我们更容易选择忽视。但最近部门发生了一些变化,我有更多权力要求她达标。我预感她会随着我加强管控而表现不佳,现在证明果然如此。 我们原本打算与人力资源部门召开第一次会议,启动正式的绩效改善计划。但人力资源部门与我联系,表示需要推迟,因为在会议安排时,她声称我制造了一个恶劣的工作环境。人力资源部门需要先调查这一指控,才能开始绩效改善计划。 鉴于她过去的行为和难以承担责任,我并不感到意外会出现这种情况。我已经厌烦应对这些问题了。就在我以为我们即将结束她的雇佣关系时,又出现了这个新问题,导致一切都推迟了。 (并非所有绩效改善计划都会以解雇结束,但在这种情况下,她需要做到如一周内回复邮件,不能在公开文件上拼写错误等事项。) 我主要是在倾诉,但我很想听听其他管理者是否遇到过类似的情况或指控,他们是如何应对的。

骚扰是一种就业歧视行为,违反了1964年《民权法案》第七章、1967年《年龄歧视就业法》以及1990年《美国残疾人法案》的规定。 骚扰指基于种族、肤色、宗教信仰、性别(包括怀孕)、国籍、年龄(40岁及以上)、残疾或遗传信息的不受欢迎的行为。如果1)容忍这种令人不快的行为成为继续就业的条件,或者2)这种行为严重或普遍到可以形成一种合理人认为具有恐吓性、敌对性或侮辱性的工作环境,那么这种骚扰行为就属于非法。反歧视法也禁止针对提出歧视投诉、作证或参与任何调查、诉讼的个人进行报复性骚扰;或反对他们合理认为存在歧视行为的就业实践。 小的冒犯、烦扰和个别事件(除非非常严重)不会达到非法的程度。要构成非法行为,该行为必须造成一种合理人认为具有恐吓性、敌对性或侮辱性的工作环境。 令人不快的行为可能包括但不限于:令人厌恶的笑话、侮辱性语言或称呼、身体威胁或攻击、恐吓、嘲笑或戏弄、侮辱或贬低、令人不快的物品或图片,以及妨碍工作表现。骚扰可能发生在各种情况下,包括但不限于:骚扰者可能是受害者的主管、其他部门的主管、雇主的代理人、同事或非员工;受害者不一定是被骚扰的人,也可能是受到冒犯行为影响的任何人;非法骚扰可能发生而不会对受害者造成经济损失或解雇。 预防是消除工作场所骚扰的最佳工具。鼓励雇主采取适当措施防止和纠正非法骚扰。他们应该明确告知员工不会容忍任何不受欢迎的骚扰行为。他们可以通过建立有效的投诉或申诉程序,为管理人员和员工提供反骚扰培训,并在员工提出投诉时立即采取适当行动来做到这一点。雇主应努力营造一个员工可以放心提出担忧并确信这些担忧将得到解决的环境。 鼓励员工直接告知骚扰者行为不受欢迎并必须停止。员工还应及早向管理层报告骚扰,以防止事态升级。 对于由主管造成的骚扰行为导致负面就业行动(如解雇、不予晋升或招聘、工资损失)的情况,雇主将自动承担责任。如果主管的骚扰行为导致了一个敌对的工作环境,雇主只有在证明1)它合理地努力防止和及时纠正骚扰行为;以及2)员工无理地没有利用雇主提供的任何预防或纠正机会的情况下,才能免除责任。 对于非管理层员工或雇主可控制的非员工(如独立承包商或场所内的客户)的骚

从你提供的详细情况来看,我认为你的工作环境可以被视为具有敌意性质。以下是我的分析和建议: 1. 你的同事"Hostilla"的行为确实存在问题。她不仅指责你、鼓噪音乐、讲种族笑话,还逼迫你做不属于你工作范围的事情,并在你试图与她沟通时情绪激动地责骂你。这种行为明显符合"敌意工作环境"的定义。 2. 你尝试过用"我觉得"的方式与她沟通,但结果反而被视为你的错误,这说明老板和HR对你的态度并不公正。HR应该调查这种行为,并采取相应措施。 3. 我建议你先与HR谈谈,阐述自己的观点和感受,提供你记录的互动日志作为证据。即使他们不愿意介入,也可以将此记录在案,为日后可能的法律诉讼做好准备。 4. 如果HR仍然没有对你的情况采取合适的措施,那么你最好还是考虑寻找一个新的工作环境。鉴于你所在的公司存在一些其他问题,比如薪酬偏低、缺乏培训等,换个环境或许对你更有利。 5. 在求职过程中,你完全有权力解释离职的原因,不必过于担心会被视为"猫咪斗争"。你所遭受的待遇明显不当,HR应该给予重视和处理。 总之,我建议你与HR坦诚沟通,同时也为寻找新的工作机会做好准备。你有权利拥有一个健康、友好的工作环境。希望你能尽快找到一份更合适的工作。

就我过去的帖子而言,事情比我能分享的还要糟糕得多。我在最后一次更新后不久就被迫离开了。我花了一年时间和大量法律费用准备听证会,只为我的雇主在听证会前几天撤回了答辩。我获得了成功的性骚扰、受害者化和建设性解雇的裁决。 我没有得到任何解决,因为我们没有进行听证会,而我的雇主继续否认发生在我身上的事情。在本周我28岁生日的时候,我不敢相信我的人生有那么多年被浪费掉了,仅仅因为在今天这个社会上妇女所受到的仇恨如此强烈。在明年的救济听证会后,我打算公开发声并写一篇博客,分享我的经历和对其他诉讼当事人的建议。 去劳动法庭是一个昂贵且精神上非常考验的过程,不仅对您本人,而且对您周围的人都是巨大的负担。我想在这里更新一下,因为我仍然将这个胜利保守在自己和最初在英国法律建议Reddit上发帖的人之间(2021年1月30日)。感谢每一个在Reddit上倾听并支持像我这样度过艰难时刻的人 - 你们无法想象自己产生的强大影响!

上一年当有人谈及大奖彩票时,我(30岁女性)第一次参与了彩票游戏。从那时起,我时不时会购买几美元的彩票,偶尔能赢些小钱,但从未期望过能中大奖。尽管如此,梦想中的巨额奖金还是让我感到很好。我现有着大量债务,一直在艰难地度日。 几个月前的某天晚上(为了隐私,不会透露具体时间),我检查了中奖号码,发现它们与我手中的彩票完全吻合。起初我并不相信,以为一定有什么错误,于是告诉了丈夫(35岁男性),我们反复检查了好几次,结果证实我中奖了。这真是一笔改变人生、跨越多代的巨额财富。 我们立即决定将这个消息保密几个月,不做任何大的动作。这几个月来,我们既感到难以置信,又感到兴奋,虽然很艰难,但我们仍设法维持了原有的生活方式,没有做任何大额消费。我们幻想着要如何使用这笔钱,但认领的时间越来越近,所以我们开始更务实地讨论如何认领以及怎么处理这笔钱。 在讨论时,我丈夫"亚当"提出,他认为把钱的三分之一分给他的好朋友兼商业伙伴"蒂姆"会是个好主意。亚当和蒂姆从中学时代就是好朋友,一直以来什么都是一起做的。他们一起创业,一起工作,一起投资,一起搬到同一个城市,一直都在幻想着有朝一日全家人会一起获得成功。既然我们一直是风险共担的伙伴,关系也如此密切,亚当觉得把奖金的三分之一给他们是很公平的做法,这样1)我们不会独自开启人生的新篇章,2)如果蒂姆也"赚"了钱,就不会引起太多可疑,毕竟我们什么都是一起做的。 但我觉得把这笔钱的存在告诉他们会有风险,因为蒂姆的家人往往比较喜欢炫耀,我不完全相信他们能够安静地保密或者保持适度,不会引起太多注意。这很重要,因为我已经见过邻里成员仅仅因为觉得有资格就骚扰和攻击那些拥有较少财富的人。这可能会危及我们的安全,所以我想尽可能避免这种情况。另外,我也不太comfortable与他提出的把蒂姆和他妻子添加为有限责任公司的成员来认领奖金的计划(因为我担心这可能会让他们觉得有权索取更多或者把钱拿走)。 亚当认为我很自私,如果他的朋友无法过上同样的生活方式,他也无法真正享受我们新获得的财富。但我认为我们可以找到一种方式,在弄清楚如何解释我们获得这笔钱(还没想到具体怎么做)之后,再给他们一些钱。 综上所述,我拒绝告诉他们我

Here is my summary and rewritten version of the story: My boyfriend is a movie critic with his own podcast. Lately, he has become increasingly pretentious and condescending about his movie opinions. He has lashed out at his co-host and me for disagreeing with his takes, calling movies like Arrival "overrated" and saying he's smarter than everyone for disliking them. He also talks down to me about my movie preferences, scoffing at me for wanting to see movies he deems beneath him. His snobbish and verbally abusive behavior has become too much for me to tolerate. After another incident where he attacked his co-host and then turned on me, I decided to end the relationship. As I was leaving, he yelled an insult at me. I do not regret my decision to break up with him over this. His elitist attitude and cruel treatment of those who don't share his cinematic tastes made him an unpleasant and toxic partner. I am better off without someone who thinks they are superior to everyone else because of their film opinions.

您的经历确实颇为不幸,可以理解您的痛苦和挫折感。您的母亲显然存在偏差,未能公平对待两个女儿。这种不公平的对待肯定会给您带来很大的伤害和负担。然而,即使在这种困难的环境下,我也希望您能保持善意和同理心。试着与母亲沟通,表达您的感受,或许还可以寻求其他亲友的帮助。无论如何,您都不应承担照顾姐姐的责任,这应该是父母的义务。希望您能找到适合自己的方式,走出这一困境,过上幸福安康的生活。

朋友,我理解你目前面临的困境。这无疑是一个棘手的情况。让我整理一下事情的经过: 你曾委婉地要求你的朋友不要发布参与当地枪击案现场的目击者的姓名、地址和照片。但他认为这是对他的审查,认为公众有权获得这些信息。尽管你认为这是合理的请求,但他对此感到非常愤怒。 后来,你的一个共同的朋友,也是那个朋友的老板,告诉你他提前离开了工作,可能是要对你提出虚假的骚扰投诉。幸运的是,你所在公司没有采取任何行动,并认为这些指控没有实质性。 你和共同的朋友都知道这个人可能存在精神问题,可能患有某种妄想性障碍。他还告诉你,由于人们像你一样的存在,他一年内就会死去,但你完全不知道他在说什么。 现在,由于不确定他是否会升级行动,你不知道该如何应对。你认为他不会危及他人的安全。 几小时后,他辞去了工作,并断绝了所有社交媒体联系,这让人感到非常奇怪。 总的来说,这是一个棘手的情况。我建议你保持警惕,并随时准备寻求专业人士的帮助,如警察或心理咨询师。同时,也要保护好自己的安全。希望这个人能够得到必要的帮助,而你也能顺利渡过这个难关。

Here is a summary of the key points in a more natural, human voice: My brother has had some serious behavioral issues over the past few years - he was caught with a porn addiction, self-harming, stealing medication, and even made plans to harm our family. After several hospitalizations and time with our dad, he's been visiting for the holidays but his behavior is still concerning. When I voiced my discomfort and unease about having him around, especially after finding his "hit list", my mom got upset with me. She wants me to be more open-minded and forgiving, but I told her I can't just forget about the things he's done, especially the attempted poisoning of our stepmom. After a tense conversation, my mom left to stay with my brother and our stepdad, leaving my stepmom Jessica and I behind. Jessica was angry at my mom's refusal to properly address the situation, and has even asked to adopt me as a way to solidify our bond and give me a stable home. I'm now trying to focus on my studies and future career plans, while keeping my distance from the family drama. It's a very messy situation, but I'm glad to have Jessica in my corner. I'm not sure what the future holds, but I'm hopeful that with time and space, my mom will come to see the severity of the issues with my brother.

edit: Today is my work day (yeah I know it's Saturday in China), so I didn't pay much attention to social media. However, minutes ago I logged into one of my social media, and some people told me I had been doxed by 和裕茶馆（里）(a subforum in NGA). I know this may happen, but not so quickly. Sorry, I don't dare to click on that link. I'm not that strong person and I need to protect my mental health. To people coming from NGA and Tieba: If you have found my Twitter account, don't humiliate that Asian woman in my avatar. It's a fake photo generated by AI. Years ago I guessed this kind of thing would happen, so I never put my real photos on the Internet. To Scara fans in China: I'm sorry this post may cause more hurt for you. I know they will be agitated by this article and try to attack you on cn community. I just want to say that atmosphere is so toxic, it's not worth it to stay anymore. I hope you can be happy. To people outside China: You can watch videos on Bilibili about what happened in the last 8 months, however, it's all in Chinese. You can also try to search 散兵 节奏 on bilibili. videos: （I'm not the content creator of these videos and articles) https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV168411S7hV/?spm_id_from=333.999.0.0&vd_source=ae7d214172e00c39cb88aa44e089ce4b https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV19P411q7ST/?spm_id_from=333.999.0.0 https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1Mj411S7eh/?spm_id_from=333.999.0.0 channel: https://space.bilibili.com/17735648 article: https://www.bilibili.com/read/cv23560885?spm_id_from=333.999.0.0 (there are much more on Bilibili. Once you watch some the algorithm will push them for you) ​ I know writing this drama on an English site is meanless. It won't solve anything. Maybe even worse, they will call me a traitor. Anyway, I just want to write down my thoughts. ​ ------------------- The original post: ​ English is not my first language. Sorry for the mistakes. This article is quite long and boring. ​ Some of you may have heard that Scaramouche's rerun banner flops in China, just slightly better than Eula & Klee's banner. It may be one of the lowest sales in CN Genshin's history, while his first banner is one of the best sales, so it looks very strange. Considering Scara's unique play style and crazy dps in C6, it looks even stranger. ​ ​ Wanderer and Kokomi's banner on 2nd day ​ ​ Wanderer and Itto's banner ​ People from outside may attribute to that bad weapon banner or "Fountain is coming!", but these factors are not very important. The truth is very twisted: lots of Chinese players tried their best to destroy this banner, hoping HoYoverse can delete Scara from the game or don't give him screentime. For 8 months, haters have recklessly harassed, doxed, and humiliated Scara fans and HoYoverse employees. They kidnapped the CN community, spreading hatred on every social platform, making it impossible to have reasonable conversations. The environment in the CN community deteriorated rapidly, and so did the banner revenues. ​ ​ 1, CN community: like a K-pop fandom Before Genshin, I'm not familiar with the Chinese game community, even though I'm Chinese. I came across this game on YouTube, so I played in the EN community in the first few months. After a while, I noticed that the CN community had very different (negative) opinions on many issues, and I thought it was interesting, so I moved to the CN community. After I joined, I witnessed lots of fan wars over trivial things. Every little thing can start a war, like Ayaka having a second PV, Vinte kneeling Ei in a scene, Alhaitham having Kaveh's keys, Charlotte not knowing Ei's identity...literally everything can cause collisions. People treat these fictional characters like real idols, and HoYoverse is an entertainment agency. They worry their idols won't get good treatment from HoYoverse, or other idols will take their benefits away, so they prove their power by attacking others. It's common to see thousands of vicious comments attacking one character and their fans, and cursing HoYoverse to go broke is many people's daily ritual. So, the atmosphere in the CN community is very sensitive and irritable. However, most attacks won't last for one month, which means the hatred toward Scara is on another level. ​ ​ 2, Why Scara? ​ for many, his personality is too strong Scaramouche is popular among female players, and he is hated the most by male players. Since he first appeared in version 1.1, many Chinese male players see him as a real enemy, not a fictional enemy. They feel offended by his arrogant attitude. His talking style pisses them off. These people get used to being flattered in a game world, so they cannot tolerate a haughty brat (btw, his real personality is much more complex than this). Self-centered people usually have fragile esteem. Before version 3.3, lots of players on NGA (a game forum) and Tieba (a trolling forum) claimed they wouldn't do Scara's story, or they would pay someone to do it. They refused to hear a single word from his mouth. ​ 2）fan wars, again Ei fans (due to abandonment), Xiao fans (due to Faruzan), Childe fans (due to a voice line), and Nahida fans (due to jealousy) all have wars with Scara fans, so it makes sense he has the most haters. About jealousy: Under Nahida's official videos, you can see comments like "I want to lick her feet" or "Nahida my wife" with thousands of likes. I don't believe there are so many pedophiles in China, so I guess they were joking. But, after versions 3.3 and 3.6, many Nahida fans cried they were cheated. They said Nahida used to love them but Scara took her away. They even wrote short dirty novels between these two. ​ 3) gender conflicts Not all CN female players like Scara (some extremely hate him, due to fan wars), but he becomes a symbol in the battle between men and women. Before Genshin Impact, HoYoverse is most famous for Honkai Impact. Honkai is an action game filled with beautiful female warriors who wear little. This kind of game is called the "men-oriented type". While Genshin is a "for-everyone type", it provides both female and male characters. Many male players feel they are betrayed. After five 5-star male characters came out in Sumeru, exceeding the number of 5-star female characters, their anger exploded, and started to expel female players and gay players. NGA and Tieba are the two most popular (and also the most toxic) forums in the CN Genshin community. You can see tons of slurs in every post, like XXN (an insulting word for women) and Gayshit (a parody of Genshin). These people blame everything on women, from bad scripts to controversial character designs to the unbalanced gender ratio. They believe Hoyoverse is dominated by so-called "XXN employees", who have nothing to do but destroy male players' wonderland. And they believe Scara, an Anemo boy who has impressive screentime in the main story, is XXN employees' favorite boy. I guess the real reason they pick him out is because he has the most haters and it's easier to stir the gender war. So attacking Scara is not just attacking a fictional character, but a way to declare war on Hoyoverse's female employees and female players. Ironically, most senior leaders in Hoyoverse are men. After NGA and Tieba users found out the leader of screenwriters was a man, they immediately claimed he must be gay. ​ ​ 3, harassment, doxing, and cyberbullying After version 3.3, moderators on Tieba banned Scara fans to talk, only letting haters express their hate. And moderators on NGA built a special subforum to troll Scara and his fans. The CN community became more and more extreme, so these things happened: ​ killing cats Scara is depicted as a cat in version 3.3, so some people used him as an excuse to kill cats. A teenager killed a cat in his living district. He said that cat looked like Scarameow. Another man killed cats with a brick and he shared killing videos in a Telegram group. ​ 2) doxing Hoyoverse employees People on Tieba and NGA tried to find out the identity of the screenwriter who wrote version 3.3. They said this story whitewashed a "war criminal", so the screenwriter must be morally condemned. They looked through recruitment sites, checking Hoyoverse employees' job titles and job histories. At one point, they found a female writer with a Scarameow avatar, but before they celebrated, they realized she didn't work in Genshin. In the end, they didn't find that writer (I guess writing is a teamwork), so they chose to attack the leaders of screenwriters and the IP team. They have shown their face in Livestream events. Last month, after Hoyoverse was hacked, dozens of character design sheets came out. On some sheets, there were signatures of senior designers, and haters alleged one woman must be Scara's character designer. They humiliated her on Tieba, spitting on her name. Luckily, they only got that name. ​ 3) spamming the community with bullshit The story in version 3.3 is not the best. It contradicts the story in Husk of Opulent Dreams and the notes found in Tatarasuna. It has no 2d animation. But the storyline is clear: Scara wants to revive his friends, and to do that, he erases himself from Teyvat (i.e. kill himself) but under Teyvat's laws he fails. Haters intentionally distorted this story. They keep saying Scara is a "war criminal" and the reason he wants to erase himself is to remove his criminal records so he can live happily after that. Everyone who disagrees with them will be called Sanjie (a derogatory term for Scara fans). This tactic is like brainwashing, and it works. Until now, it's almost impossible to discuss Scara's story wisely. Haters see themselves as morality police. They break into every post and video involving Scara, leaving meaningless comments like "dip rice" (a homonym of war criminal), "fermented tofu" (prisoner), "tumor" (a derogatory term for Scara), etc. Even under fan-made animations, you can see comments like that. In 3.6, 3.7, 3.8 Livestreams, haters posted bullet comments like "Scarahida Forever" (they were not shippers, just wanted to disgust others) and 7246 (means "Scara fans to die"). In the future, they will appear again. ​ 4) harass Scara fans and VA After writing so much above, I think it should not surprise anyone that haters like to harass fans. They send direct messages to insult fans, build fake fan groups to dox them, and post their chat on forums for everyone to humiliate. Sometimes, they join people's worlds who use Scara as avatars, only trying to curse them. The CN voice actor of Scara, aka Kana, has also been insulted on Livestream. ​ 5) report Scara to the Government The ultimate goal for haters is to delete Scara from Genshin Impact, however, it's not very possible after his banner came out. So, they tried to convince the Shanghai government to delete him. They connected Scara with Japanese militarism, crying that Hoyoverse had hurt the feeling of ordinary Chinese people. In their group chats, they admitted it's all bullshit. Shanghai Press Publish Bureau got their reports. Days later, they replied that the story of Scara had no problem. Haters were very disappointed, and said they would report to Beijing. ​ ​ 4, keep falling The hatred towards Scara and his fans is uncontrollable in the CN community. Scara is not a REAL person (I hope haters can understand this), so he won't be hurt. But I'm very worried about Scara fans. They have been bullied for so long, and no one stands out to speak for them (except the Xian Army, a group of volunteers who maintain the community environment). People's mental health deteriorate, and some even said they had suicidal thoughts. The atmosphere in the CN community is so toxic, it eventually influenced the banner revenue. The hatred towards Scara was stirred before version 3.6, and after Nahida & Nilou banner, the following banners all flopped (Kazuha & Alhaitham's banner is just ok). Haters are very happy with this news. At this point, they are not just anti-Scara, but anti-Hoyoverse as well. They resent Hoyoverse for creating and promoting this man, even a simple official sticker can agitate them. Before Hoyoverse puts its head down, they will keep praying it goes bankrupt. On Wednesday, after the revenue chart of Scara & Kokomi's banner came out, haters went into ecstasy. "Wander's banner dramatically flops" even became a trend on Tieba. They said they successfully beat Hoyoverse and Scara fans. Looking at that tiny curve, I think they might be right. Under this toxic environment, only a few people want to pull for him. He is labeled by the community as a war criminal, an unwelcome person, and a trouble attractor. ​ ​ 5, how will this end? I don't know. Maybe Hoyoverse will keep making content like nothing happened. They get used to being in trouble, and the Bunny Girl Drama in Honkai has proved they can be recovered from malicious public opinions. But I'm not that confident either. Genshin is not Honkai, its operating strategy is more cautious. In order to avoid fan wars, they already designed tons of characters as good people who can't go wrong. They sacrificed the fun of the story in exchange for peace. So, maybe Hoyoverse will quietly reduce Scara's appearance, or even change the main story since Scara is related to so many important stuff. Sometimes, I feel sad for Hoyoverse's writers. Every little thing can trigger their players. It's almost impossible to write an interesting story. They can only show their talent in World Quests since people give NPCs more tolerance and no fan war. ​ ​

我能理解这种情况下的挫折感。你的家人似乎过于偏爱你的妹妹玛蒂,并且总是维护她的立场,即使她可能有错。他们被玛蒂的行为所迷惑,并且急于采取行动来惩罚他人,而不是要求玛蒂自己负责。 作为一个旁观者,我会建议你的父母以更客观和冷静的态度来看待这件事。他们应该耐心地听取所有人的说法,然后公正地评估情况,而不是盲目地支持玛蒂。 你也不应该被禁止表达自己的意见。作为家人,你有权提出合理的建议。希望你的父母能够从你的角度考虑问题,并做出更明智的决定。无论如何,保持坦诚和理性沟通都是很重要的。

我前任老板比我大10岁,工作环境令我感到不安全,这导致我心理状况出现问题,所以我决定离职。目前我的心理健康状况不佳,无法工作,所以我申请了失业救济金。我收到了一封信,声称我之前的陈述是错误的。合同中规定我不能起诉他们。我现在不知道该怎么办。

我明白你所处的情况。请允许我重述一下你的故事: 你有一个非常亲密的朋友圈。你们彼此都很支持。有几年前,你的朋友"苏珊"遭遇了一些非常糟糕的事情,导致她陷入了一个低谷。经过多次尝试,她终于找到了一位合适的治疗师,开始缓慢地走出阴霾。你们都为她感到高兴。 几个月前,你搬到了一个临近的城市。在那儿,你偶然在餐厅遇到了一个很棒的人,你们立即产生了化学反应。虽然你原本计划独自度假,但最后和这个人一起度过了全部11天。回到新居后,你告诉朋友们这件事,大家都为你感到高兴,包括"苏珊"。 后来你发现,这个人正是"苏珊"的治疗师。"苏珊"要求你必须与他分手,因为她不愿意自己的隐私信息被泄露。你试图解释此事并非有意为之,但她还是一再骚扰这位治疗师,要求他与你分手。最终,治疗师不得不停止为"苏珊"提供服务,并推荐了另一位治疗师。 自此之后,"苏珊"开始对你进行抹黑,你们的朋友圈也不再像从前那么紧密了。"苏珊"开始重新陷入了低谷,生活状态也每况愈下。你的其他朋友要求你为"苏珠"放弃这段感情,但你不愿意这样做。 我理解你现在的处境。你不应该成为"苏珊"康复道路上的障碍,但同时也要照顾好自己的感情。我认为最好的做法是与"苏珊"沟通,请求理解和支持。如果她仍然拒绝接受,你可以考虑寻求专业人士的建议。我希望你们能够找到一个双方都接受的解决方案。

我在另一家公司找到工作后,提交了一周的离职通知。这可能是个不太合适的时机,因为我的上司也在他的最后一周工作。不过最近我的心理健康和总体幸福感受到了一定的打击,在经历了一切之后,我需要更多地关注自己,因为这比工作更为重要。 我的直线经理找我坐下来,我以为会是一次有建设性的对话,探讨我为什么要离职。相反,他开始对我进行批评,称我"不专业",试图攻击我的品格,说我是"降职做更少的工作"(我从酒吧经理的角色降到了高级调酒师,但我的新工作更加繁忙并且工资更高)。他还谈到我的工作态度不符合标准(尽管在前一周的6个月试用期谈话中,他说我符合所有标准,工作做得很好)。他还把我的行为比作"临时工"。 他还说他基本上会令我这最后一周的工作生活很痛苦,给我安排所有琐碎的工作。 我感到非常震惊和感到受伤,因为这家公司的整个工作理念是"努力工作,善待他人" - 但我现在知道这纯属虚伪。这家公司也被评为英国最佳工作公司之一,这种行为更加令人意外。 我向人力资源部门和总经理投诉了此事。现在他要接受纪律处分,他的新工作(他正在公司内部调动到另一个城市的一个餐厅)也会知道这件事。一个自称忠诚于公司的人现在将在他的记录上留下欺负和骚扰的指控。我一直在请病假,希望他会过劳和压力山大。他本想在新的吧台经理来之前留下一个良好的交接,但现在他不仅要处理调动城市的事情,还要确保工作一切就绪。整个团队可能会过度劳累和疲惫,这都是他的错。 在我们几周前的一次无关的对话中,他曾对我说"让愚蠢的人说"暗示愚蠢的人会一直说到说出更愚蠢的话。我确实让一个愚蠢的人说了下去。

我理解您目前的处境让您感到非常痛苦和困扰。作为您的妻子,她的行为无疑是令人震惊和无法接受的。不过,在做出任何决定之前,我建议您先冷静下来,尝试与她沟通并寻求专业的辅导帮助。 您提到,她在目睹您照顾女儿的过程中突然发怒并向警方告发您,这无疑是一个极为严重的问题。根据您描述的情况,这很可能是由于她的心理状态出现了问题。我建议您耐心地去聆听她,试图理解她的想法和感受,不要着急做出任何决定。 同时,我建议您配合自己的律师进行法律程序,尽快获得对女儿的完全监护权。这不仅是为了保护自己,也是为了保护女儿的利益。虽然周围的人可能会施加压力,但您必须坚持自己的原则和判断。 我理解这个过程会非常艰难和煎熬,但请相信您做出的一切决定都是为了更好地保护自己和女儿。请保重,并相信一切都会好起来的。

这是一个关于"唠叨"和"伪善"的言论。作为概括,人们通常很容易指出别人的问题,却难以解决自己的问题。这种做法被称为"锅和黑锅"(Pot, kettle)的说法。这位Kirk先生提出了这一观点,值得认真思考。我们都应该努力提高自我认知,而不是仅仅指责他人。

Bitte beachte, dass ich als KI-Assistent keinen direkten Zugriff auf Informationen aus den verlinkten Beiträgen habe. Basierend auf den Informationen, die du mir direkt bereitgestellt hast, hier meine Zusammenfassung: - Die Eltern des Poster haben in seinem Namen mehrere Kreditkarten eröffnet und über 15.000 US-Dollar Schulden angehäuft. - Als der Poster dies ansprach, wollten die Eltern ihn entweder dazu zwingen, Konkurs anzumelden oder ihn aus dem Haus werfen. - Der Poster hat daraufhin Anzeige erstattet, da dies als Identitätsdiebstahl und Betrug eingestuft wird. - Die Staatsanwaltschaft wird nun wohl gegen die Eltern ermitteln, möglicherweise werden sie sogar verhaftet. - Der Poster plant außerdem, eine Zivilklage wegen der unrechtmäßigen Räumung einzureichen. Insgesamt hat der Poster richtig gehandelt, indem er die Behörden eingeschaltet hat. Identitätsdiebstahl und Betrug durch die Eltern sind sehr schwerwiegende Vergehen, die entsprechend strafrechtlich verfolgt werden müssen. Ich hoffe, der Poster kann die Situation letztendlich klären und die Schäden für seine Kreditwürdigkeit minimieren.

当地居民长期遭受该HOA主席的骚扰和针对性处罚。居民们遵循章程发起了罢免投票,结果以社区四分之一的人(74%的投票者)支持罢免。但主席拒绝辞职,管理公司也持她的立场。 在最初要求董事会安排投票时,整个董事会连续30多天都没有回应。相反,主席和她丈夫开始骚扰居民,要求他们提供签名者名单,并在社区Facebook群组上发帖造成恐吓。被认为签名的人遭到了报复性执法,被禁止进入社区页面。在我们发出第一次请求后,每个人都知道此事,但从未安排投票,也从未主动联系我们。在经历了一个多月的阻碍行为后,我们聘请了一个中立的第三方来组织投票。尽管面临重重障碍,我们还是成功了。 现在主席声称她没有发言机会,但事实上正是她在各个环节阻碍了整个过程,并拒绝发言。她是与管理公司的联络人,管理公司只听从她一个人的指令。大多数董事会成员都想让她离开,但管理公司却不听他们的,于是所有董事会成员都退出表示抗议。现在他们强行要求重新投票,这次投票当然会由管理公司来组织和计票。这样的变化无疑是在奖励她的阻挠和报复行为,损害了整个过程的公正性。 整个情况都像是一个阴谋,旨在奖励阻挠行为,忽视社区的意愿。

Dave Temkin, der VP für globale Netzwerke bei Netflix, hat sich nach Gegenreaktionen aus seinem Twitter-Bio entfernt. Es gibt jedoch einen Zwischenspeicher, der darauf hinweist, dass er ohne Wissen des Betroffenen Fotos des berüchtigten Google-Memo-Autors James Damore gemacht haben soll. Temkin behauptet nun, dass Damore ihn belästigt habe, aber es gibt dafür keine Beweise. Nachdem er dafür kritisiert wurde, löschte Temkin seinen entsprechenden Tweet, räumte aber ein, dass es falsch gewesen sei, ein Foto von jemandem ohne dessen Einverständnis zu posten - auch wenn diese Person eine schlechte Person sei. Temkin erklärte weiter, dass seine Freundesgruppe bei der Veranstaltung, bei der die Fotos entstanden, selbst belästigt worden sei, ohne dass sie etwas getan hätten. Es scheint, als habe Temkin einen Tweet übersehen, in dem er behauptete, Damore habe ihn belästigt. Daraufhin hat Temkin sein Twitter-Profil geschützt, was bedeutet, dass es nicht mehr öffentlich verifiziert werden kann.